Narcissistic Breadcrumbing (Ep 61) | Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life Podcast

Description: Welcome to Episode 61 of the "Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life" podcast with your host, Laurel Slade Wagoner. In this insightful episode, we dive deep into the manipulative behavior known as narcissistic breadcrumbing. Laurel explains how narcissists subtly and deceitfully maintain control over their victims by offering minimal cooperation and sporadic attention.</p> 🔖 In this episode, you will learn:</p> <ul> <li> The connection between narcissistic stonewalling and breadcrumbing.</p> </li> <li> How breadcrumbing creates confusion, doubt, and a false sense of hope in victims.</p> </li> <li> Real-life examples and manifestations of narcissistic breadcrumbing.</p> </li> <li> Practical steps to empower yourself and stop the cycle of breadcrumbing.</p> </li> </ul> 🌟 Key Highlights:</p> <ul> <li> [00:00:14] Introduction and gratitude to listeners.</p> </li> <li> [00:02:12] Understanding narcissistic stonewalling.</p> </li> <li> [00:04:47] What is narcissistic breadcrumbing?</p> </li> <li> [00:06:49] How victims fall into the breadcrumbing trap.</p> </li> <li> [00:11:05] Examples from real-life scenarios.</p> </li> <li> [00:20:01] Three-step process to empower yourself against breadcrumbing.</p> </li> <li> [00:22:30] Healing activity and practical applications.</p> </li> <li> [00:23:40] Power Scriptures and a prayer for the listeners.</p> </li> </ul> 📬 Have Questions? Suggestions? Contact Us! Feel free to email Laurel at lslade4izon.net with any questions or topics you’d like addressed in upcoming episodes. Your input helps shape our future content!</p> 💡 Stay Updated: Subscribe to our podcast and leave a rating and review. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Don’t forget to subscribe to our email community for updates on future podcasts, books, and free monthly tools to help you stay sane and strong.</p> 📚 Books by Laurel Slade Wagoner:</p> <ul> <li> "Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy"</p> </li> <li> "Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy"</p> </li> </ul> Available for purchase at <a href="http://sladewagonercounselingservices.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sladewagonercounselingservices.com</a></p> 🙏 Thank you for listening! God bless and take care. 🕊️</p> #NarcissisticAbuse #Breadcrumbing #MentalHealth #ManipulationTactics #Empowerment #Healing #Podcast #Narcissism</p> 🔗 Links:</p> <ul> <li> Visit our website:</p> <a href="http://sladewagonercounselingservices.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">sladewagonercounselingservices.com</a></p> </li> </ul>

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Divorcing A Narcissist (Ep 60) | Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life Podcast

Welcome to “Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life” with Laurel Slade Wagoner. </p> In this insightful episode, hosts David and Laurel dive deep into the complexities of dealing with a narcissistic parent or partner, especially during and after the divorce process. 💔👨‍👩‍👧‍👦</p> Are you struggling with a narcissistic spouse or co-parent? Discover why confronting or trying to change their behavior is often unproductive and how to focus on supporting and protecting your children instead. 🛡️</p> Key Topics Discussed: - The impact of a narcissistic parent on children and teens - Strategies for minimizing harm and promoting healing - Preparing for and navigating the divorce process with a narcissistic partner - Legal and financial advice for protecting yourself and your children - The importance of setting boundaries and teaching healthy relationships - Dealing with manipulative behavior and fake repentance - Understanding the roles of attorneys, forensic accountants, and parent coordinators</p> 🔍 **Highlights**: - Importance of financial and legal preparation before initiating a divorce - The role of honest communication with children about their parent's behavior - Strategies for maintaining custody agreements and ensuring the well-being of your kids - Biblical insights on dealing with narcissistic behavior and the necessary steps for divorce</p> May God bless you abundantly. Thank you for listening and being part of this community.</p> TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Informal episode discusses divorce process with narcissist. 06:26 Encouraging divorce, stressful process, decision is crucial. 06:48 Facing manipulation when leaving a narcissist is challenging. 12:18 Research local attorneys, seek their input. 15:38 Doubtful he'll change, don't count on it. 19:19 Narcissistic partners hiding money, help available. 20:09 Finding an attorney with key connections is crucial. 25:36 Earn trust, tell truth, help children cope. 28:58 Divorced parent struggles with bribery and structure. 30:37 Married man dating younger woman, sucking up. 35:56 Custody negotiations often lead to manipulation 38:10 Honesty and structure help parent-child estrangement. 41:37 Emphasize treating kids as people in divorce. 44:45 Finding the truth helps to understand differences. 46:04 Open, honest communication and confidentiality is essential. 50:05 Ideal book for divorcing a narcissist, step-by-step guide.</p>  </p> **********</p> Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop</p>

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False Guilt Syndrome (Ep 59) | Help! I Have A Narcissist In My Life Podcast

Welcome to “Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life” with Laurel Slade Wagoner. In Episode 59, we dive deep into the concept of False Guilt Syndrome and how living with a narcissist can make you feel chronically guilty and fearful. Whether you’re a regular listener or new to the podcast, your pain is seen and lifted up in prayer. Remember, your experiences are valid and it’s not your fault.</p> In this episode, we explore:</p>  • The exhausting and debilitating nature of chronic guilt and fear  • How narcissists shift blame and induce false guilt  • Indicators of False Guilt Syndrome  • Practical steps to overcome chronic guilt and reclaim your peace</p> Sign up for my email community on my website for a free sanity and strength-building tool each month! Stay tuned for actionable insights and biblical guidance to navigate your journey.</p> Key Scriptures:</p>  • Romans 8:1  • Psalm 34:18  • Isaiah 26:3  • Proverbs 16:24  • Galatians 1:10</p> Resources Mentioned:</p>  • Don’t Let the Crazy Make You Crazy (Book)  • Don’t Let the Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy (Book)</p> Subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find it. Feel free to email your questions or topic suggestions to lslave4@verizon.net. For more information, visit Slade-Waggoner Counseling Services.</p> May God bless you abundantly. Thank you for listening and being part of this community.</p> **********</p> Check out Laurel's books: https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop</p>

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How Narcissists Use the Concepts of Biblical Submission and Obedience to Control and Abuse Their Victims (Ep 58)

Learn how narcissists manipulate and control their victims by twisting Biblical concepts of submission and obedience. This eye-opening podcast episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner exposes the tactics used by narcissists in relationships and offers advice on how to break free from their control.</p>  </p> Thanks for listening!</p> Please remember to subcribe, and leave a rating and a review to help us reach more people.</p>  </p> Laurel's Books:</p> <a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop">https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop</a></p>

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Narcissistic FOG-ing (Ep 57) - How Narcissists Use This Form of Manipulation to Get What They Want from Others

On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses Narcissistic FOG-ing. </p> Narcissistic FOG-ing is a powerful and effective form of manipulation in which narcissistic  individuals use language and gestures that invoke fear, obligation, and/or guilt in their victims to ensure that their demands are met with compliance.</p> Thanks for listening!</p> Laurel's Books:</p> <a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop">https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/shop</a></p>

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Coercive Control (Ep 56) - How to Recognize It and Guard Yourself Against It

On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses coercive control and how to recognize it and guard yourself against it.</p> Narcissistic control and abuse are being talked about and dealt with more than ever before. And so is coercive control.</p> Thanks for listening!</p> Laurel's Books:</p> <em>Don't Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy:</em></p> <a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-your-kids-crazy"> https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-your-kids-crazy </a></p> <em>Don't Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy:</em></p> https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy<a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy">https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/product-page/don-t-let-their-crazy-make-you-crazy</a></p>

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Unconditional Love and Unconditional Support (Ep 55) - They Are Not One and the Same

 </p> <em>Unconditional Love and Unconditional Support- They are not one and the same </em></p> Narcissists can be extremely charming, nice, apologetic, and cooperative- as long as circumstances and other people are providing them with <em>exactly</em> what they believe they are entitled to, without any <em>conditions</em>.</p> Through my years of counseling, I have met with hundreds of clinically narcissistic, Biblically foolish individuals who were masters at articulating false narratives of wanting to work on themselves and their relationships, who were experts at feigning contrition, who were pros at pretending to be repentent, changed people during their relationship counseling sessions, or who were whizzes at convincing others that they were helpless, powerless victims of circumstance. </p> Listen and learn how to tell the difference between unconditional love and unconditional support.</p> Thanks for listening!</p> For more resources from Laurel please refer to her website:</p> <a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/">https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/</a></p>

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How Narcissists Use Niceness to Control and Manipulate Their Partners (Ep 54)

On this episode of the Help! I Have a Narcissist in my Life Podcast, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses how narcissists use niceness to control and manipulate their partners. </p>  </p> Narcissists use niceness to control and manipulate their partners throughout the entire course of their relationships. And narcissistic niceness can be just as toxic to one's heart and soul as narcissistic nastiness is. </p>  </p> Thanks for listening!</p>  </p> <a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/">https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/</a></p>

00:22:34

Wise People vs. Foolish, Narcissistic People-A Biblical Comparison (Ep 53)

The Bible is packed with descriptions of wise people and even more packed with descriptions of foolish people. In this episode, Laurel Slade-Waggoner discusses the fruit, or personality trait patterns, of wise people as well as foolish, narcissistic people.</p> Thanks for listening!</p> Follow Laurel Slade-Waggoner on Social Media:</p> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sladewaggoner/">https://www.instagram.com/sladewaggoner/</a></p> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/sladewaggoner">https://www.facebook.com/sladewaggoner</a></p> YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@helpihaveanarcissistinmylife/videos">https://www.youtube.com/@helpihaveanarcissistinmylife/videos</a></p> TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sladewaggonercounseling">https://www.tiktok.com/@sladewaggonercounseling</a></p> Website: <a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/">https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/</a></p>  </p> Podcast produced and edited by: <a href="https://www.dugascreativemarketing.com/">https://www.dugascreativemarketing.com/</a></p>  </p>

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Common Malignant Attitudes of the Narcissist and How They Develop - Part Two (Ep 52)

In part one, the focus revolved around the internal world of a narcissist and what leads to the creation of a narcissistic malignant attitude. In this episode, part two, the focus will be on a few of the common, narcissistic, malignant attitudes and how they can be recognized. </p> Thanks for listening!</p> <a href="https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/">https://www.slade-waggonercounselingservices.com/</a></p>

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